# BOOT HER TO THE CURB!!! oh wait... she didn't cheat on you... -->

Posted by Matt (93SE) on June 18, 2002 at 13:12:16:

In Reply to: ok i need some woman advice..... posted by Alex on June 18, 2002 at 11:43:08:

Best thing you (both of you actually) can do is show your maturity in the matter. have a nice talk with her before you meet the folks and make sure that she'll agree with the fact is was HER choice and not yours on sleeping with her.. so if the parents know it wasn't some 20 yr old raping their little girl, it will make things a little better.

This happened to me a few years ago (exact same situation), and when I finally met the parents, just be a gentleman and keep your mouth shut about your "relationship" unless THEY bring it up and ask you. then just be honest and answer whatever they ask with as mature demeanor and as straight a face as possible.
(don't start with "Hey Mister.. your daughter is HOT!")

but best thing to do is just try to let the situation blow over for a little while, and if they want to meet you or whatever, just go with it and let them think they're in control. they're still the parents and they can lock her in her room forever- and you obviosuly don't want that to happen.

: sigh so heres the story. i'm dating a younger girl. i'm 20 she's 17. its been like 3 months or so and things have been suprisingly great. just a few weeks ago we had sex and it was her first time. anyhow things went fine aftewords. so the other day i'm waiting for her to come online so i could talk to her. her SN came online before she got off work, turns out her parents when on her screen name, read ALL of the email and convo we've had together. basically they know everything now. talk about violation of privacy. yeah so basically i really care about her and everything, just her parents are being so protective of her. its obvious that we all need to talk but honestly i'm scared. if i decide to meet up with them it'll prolly be the hardiest thing i've ever had to do short of drilling out the exhaust studs. i mean they know everything! specially about all the sex positions and preferences and all that kinky stuff lol.

: so should i stay or should i go now? i'm opting for staying and seeing how the meeting goes. help!?

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- Ha-ha!! DOWN BOY! Good advice though - me too w/ my ex g/f... nm Jacob ('93 SE) 13:18:17 6/18/2002 (0)

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: Best thing you (both of you actually) can do is show your maturity in the matter. have a nice talk with her before you meet the folks and make sure that she'll agree with the fact is was HER choice and not yours on sleeping with her.. so if the parents know it wasn't some 20 yr old raping their little girl, it will make things a little better. : : This happened to me a few years ago (exact same situation), and when I finally met the parents, just be a gentleman and keep your mouth shut about your "relationship" unless THEY bring it up and ask you. then just be honest and answer whatever they ask with as mature demeanor and as straight a face as possible. : (don't start with "Hey Mister.. your daughter is HOT!") : : but best thing to do is just try to let the situation blow over for a little while, and if they want to meet you or whatever, just go with it and let them think they're in control. they're still the parents and they can lock her in her room forever- and you obviosuly don't want that to happen. : : : sigh so heres the story. i'm dating a younger girl. i'm 20 she's 17. its been like 3 months or so and things have been suprisingly great. just a few weeks ago we had sex and it was her first time. anyhow things went fine aftewords. so the other day i'm waiting for her to come online so i could talk to her. her SN came online before she got off work, turns out her parents when on her screen name, read ALL of the email and convo we've had together. basically they know everything now. talk about violation of privacy. yeah so basically i really care about her and everything, just her parents are being so protective of her. its obvious that we all need to talk but honestly i'm scared. if i decide to meet up with them it'll prolly be the hardiest thing i've ever had to do short of drilling out the exhaust studs. i mean they know everything! specially about all the sex positions and preferences and all that kinky stuff lol. : : so should i stay or should i go now? i'm opting for staying and seeing how the meeting goes. help!?